The Art of Thinking and the Myth of Normalcy in Our Society

In a world that often values conformity over individuality, it's crucial to challenge the concept of "normalcy" and recognize the unique contributions of neurodivergent individuals. The so-called "normal" rules, work hours, school systems, social cues, and societal expectations are largely based on the majority's preferences. However, this majority does not represent everyone. Neurodivergent communities, or "neuro spicy" individuals, are not diseased or deficient; they simply function differently. It's time to embrace and celebrate these differences, acknowledging that they enrich our society in myriad ways.

Embracing Neurodiversity

Neurodivergent individuals, including those with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, and other cognitive variations, often bring fresh perspectives and innovative ideas that challenge the status quo. Their brains are wired differently, which allows them to see and solve problems in unique ways. Historically, many groundbreaking advancements have come from individuals who think outside the conventional box.

The Benefits of Neurodivergent Thinking

1. Innovation and Creativity: Neurodivergent individuals have been at the forefront of many technological, scientific, and artistic breakthroughs. For example:

   • Thomas Edison, who is believed to have had ADHD, invented the phonograph, the motion picture camera, and the electric light bulb.
   • Steve Jobs, who exhibited traits of both ADHD and autism, revolutionized personal computing with Apple and introduced the iPhone, changing the way we communicate and interact with technology.
   • Albert Einstein, who had characteristics of autism and dyslexia, developed the theory of relativity, fundamentally changing our understanding of physics.
   • Simone Biles and Michael Phelps, elite athletes who have spoken openly about their ADHD and mental health challenges, have set new standards in gymnastics and swimming, respectively, demonstrating that neurodivergent individuals can excel at the highest levels of competition.
   • Steven Bartlett, entrepreneur and host of "The Diary of a CEO" podcast, who has ADHD, provides fresh perspectives on business and life, inspiring millions with his innovative approach to entrepreneurship.
   • Artists and creatives such as Vincent van Gogh, believed to have had a form of bipolar disorder used their unique perspectives to create timeless art that continues to inspire and challenge societal norms.

2. Problem-Solving: The ability to think differently often leads to innovative solutions to complex problems. Neurodivergent individuals can see patterns and connections that others might miss, leading to advancements in various fields such as medicine, engineering, and art.

3. Resilience and Perseverance: Many neurodivergent people have developed exceptional resilience and perseverance due to navigating a world not designed for them. These traits are invaluable in any field, driving progress and change.

Redefining "Normal"

The concept of normalcy is a social construct that reflects the preferences and behaviors of the majority. However, this does not mean that the majority's way is the only or the best way. Just because someone speaks or acts differently does not signify that they are inherently wrong or less than those who fit into traditional norms. Labeling neurodivergent individuals as "crazy," "weird," or "difficult" only serves to make the majority feel comfortable by marginalizing those who don't conform. By recognizing and valuing neurodiversity, we can create a more inclusive society that benefits from the unique strengths and insights of all its members.

The Art of Thinking for Ourselves

French psychiatrist Boris Cyrulnik emphasizes the importance of critical thinking and the danger of conforming to societal norms without question. He argues that many of us have lost the art of thinking for ourselves, opting instead to let authority figures—whether they are political leaders, educators, or religious figures—make decisions on our behalf. This delegation of thought is comfortable but ultimately disempowering.

Cyrulnik highlights that thinking for ourselves requires effort and courage. It involves questioning the status quo, considering alternative perspectives, and making informed choices. When we let others think for us, we risk perpetuating systems that do not serve everyone's best interests, especially those of neurodivergent individuals.

Ways to Start Thinking for Yourself

In a society that often values conformity, thinking for yourself can be challenging but rewarding. Here are some ways to start:

1. Question Authority: Don't accept information or rules at face value. Ask why things are done a certain way and consider if there are better alternatives.

   • Example: If your workplace enforces a strict 9-5 schedule, suggest flexible working hours to improve productivity and work-life balance.

2. Embrace Diverse Perspectives: Surround yourself with people who think differently from you. Engage in conversations that challenge your viewpoints.

   • Example: Participate in community events or online forums that focus on different cultures and ideas.

3. Practice Critical Thinking: Analyze and evaluate information before forming an opinion. Look for evidence and consider multiple perspectives.

   • Example: When reading news articles, compare sources to understand different viewpoints on the same issue.

4. Encourage Creativity: Foster an environment where creative thinking is valued. This can be at work, home, or in educational settings.

   • Example: Support project-based learning in schools, where students can explore topics creatively and independently.

5. Learn from Other Cultures: France is known for its liberal and outspoken culture, where questioning norms and engaging in intellectual debates are common. Learning from other cultures can provide new perspectives and encourage critical thinking.

   • Example: Engage in lively debates on social, mental health, family, the art of the conversation, identity issues, similar to the French practice, to develop and refine your critical thinking skills.

Embracing Diversity and Critical Thinking

To move forward, we must embrace the art of thinking for ourselves and challenge the myth of normalcy. By fostering a culture of empathy, open-mindedness, and critical thinking, we can create a society that values and includes everyone, regardless of how their brains work. Let us honor the wisdom of thinkers like Boris Cyrulnik and reclaim our ability to think critically, fostering a world where diverse perspectives are not just tolerated but celebrated.

In doing so, we can harness the full potential of neurodivergent individuals, driving innovation, creativity, and progress for the benefit of all, where different approaches to thinking and living are accepted and valued, can further enhance our ability to think critically and inclusively. 

Embracing diversity in all its forms, and encouraging everyone to think for themselves, especially encouraging children today to develop their critical thinking skills will lead to a richer, more innovative, and more compassionate society.